May 5th is known as Boy’s Day (now Children’s Day) in Japan. My family never really celebrated this day .. my parents are second generation also called Nisei, Japanese Americans .. so in a nutshell they were born here, but spoke English to their parents. They could understand spoken Japanese, but by the time I came along, a third generation or Sansei, Japanese American … well lets just say not only did i not speak or understand Japanese but most if not all the traditions went out the door as well. Unlike a lot of cultures that settle here, the Japanese Americans for the most part shed most of their connections to most things Japan related, and fully embraced all things American. You may ask why this was, and that is a much longer discussion that mostly involves the Internment Camps of World War 2 .. of which both my parents and their families spent nearly 4 years of their life behind barbwire and gun towers. Lets just say if you were Japanese, you didn’t want any connection to anything Japanese during this time period.
But I digress .. I am the only boy in my family, in fact my two sisters are ten years older than I, so it was like I was an only child growing up. I did get glimpses of what it means to be Japanese .. my mother would display this Samurai Kabuto (helmet) and Samurai Doll on May 5th, and say when i got bigger it would be for me to give to my son. I ,of course, only wanted to play with it and actually I’m amazed I did not destroy it in the years I’ve had it 😉 We also would run around with flag shaped Carps .. whose meaning was lost to me at the time.
Though late in life, my frequent travels to Japan have centered me, my soul .. I’m am comfortable with my ethnicity. At the same time I do realize I will never be 100% accepted in Japan… because of my lack of language skills, and my American way of thinking and or doing things. An example of this is just saying hey lets do an art show and lets do it now ! ha-ha .. that doesn’t go over too well for many reasons .. the enthusiasm is fine but the way one goes about it, well that is much more difficult. I do know on a basic level, certain things are very important, like bringing gifts or not being boastful … I guess that is something i grew up with in my household. In America, I sometimes do not fit though.. mostly because here it’s how you look on the outside which is how you are initially judged… how I look (duh, Japanese !) I will always be Asian…a perfect example is my family and I were back East in Boston, and my father was outside some Colonial House , smoking .. a Caucasian woman came up to him and asked a question, to which my father did not hear her .. she turned away and said “Oh he doesn’t understand English ! ” … growing up I’d get folks saying to me “oh, your English is perfect” ..Hmmm, ya why wouldn’t it be ? I would think to myself… just a few examples… of which I have a lifetimes worth to tell someday… Well such is life .. at least I only have to think about one race, and as the next few generations dealing with multi-race identities will no doubt be an even more confusing issue for them. What is it to be American ? I think I’m American, more so than Japanese …and yet when I step off that plane in Japan, I’m strangely at home… of course until I get the first barrage of Japanese in my face, than the panic sets in and the ” No Nihongo .. ” is muttered. But, that is another blog for another day 😉
So, today I will pass these items to my son, Max … give him a tiny history and family lesson, tell him to pass these along to his son or daughter and of course take him to the comic book store to buy him something .. I mean that’s what holidays are all about, right ? Buying stuff .. Yes, we are indeed Americans ! ( ha-ha )
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